How do you feel when people do not return things they borrowed from you? 如果人们不把借的东西归还给你的话你会有什么感觉？
I honestly will feel a little bit sad about that. You know, I sacrificed my trust and ended up getting back an unfriendly behavior which is unacceptable. The worst thing is that I can’t even tell them directly because that will hurt their ego.
Do you like to lend things to others? 你喜欢借东西给人吗？
Yes, I do. I enjoy giving things out because I think it’s a good way to make myself happy. You might not understand this, but the way I see it, this article is from Laokaoya website, to give a hand to others would also give me a chance of seeking help when in need.
Have you ever borrowed money from others? 你曾经向别人借过钱吗？
Yes, I have. I remember I borrowed some money from my best friend Wang before I took the CFA, which is a very important and expensive Finance exam. I was running out of money during that time and I couldn’t ask more from my parents. So, Wang just lent the money to me to help me get registered for the exam, which I felt quite grateful.
Have you borrowed books from others? 你曾经向别人结果书籍吗？
Yes, I have. I have many friends who are quite into reading. They always recommend me some interesting books while we are chatting during dinner time. The last book that I borrowed from them was a book called Educated, which was a very educational autobiography.